What if you love someone and they don't love you in return?

Answer by  worker5179 (42)

Its ok to love someone, its just that sometimes others don't know how to appreciate your effort on how you cared to them. Maybe they don't love you as much as you love them. Maybe she's not yet the right one for you. Each and everyone of us has its own destiny. Let the time find real love for you.

Answer by  Mable (3008)

There is a saying: if you love someone, set them free -- if they come back to you they are your's. Leave lots of space, and stop investing yourself in this possibility. then if the person comes to you it is great, and if not you can move on in freedom and with your dignity in place.

Answer by  drew76 (146)

Then you need to move on. There's nothing worse or more time consuming than loving and not being loved. You could spend your efforts on another relationship that may succeed.

Answer by  Vllad45 (1886)

Sometimes there is nothing you can do, but hold out for a while, show them (quietly, not over-baringly) how much you truly care and that it is not a passing fancy.

Answer by  Kurt (4579)

You have a real dilema. You have to make a choice on whether to pursue the relationship in hopes of them falling in love with you or whether to find someone that loves you in return.