What do I do if my husband still loves his ex-wife?

Answer by  jmcew (139)

Try to have an honest conversation with him. Hopefully he will reassure you that their love is in the past. In either case, he is married to you now. He should try to remember why things did not work with her, and consider seeing a counselor with you!

Answer by  Roland27 (16334)

Sit him down. Tell him that if he still loves his ex-wife he should divorce you and go be with her. Tell him you don't want to be second place and that you feel horrible because you feel he love her instead of you. You deserve better than second place. Always remember that.

Answer by  foodie213 (301)

If your husband has admitted to having strong feelings of love for his ex-wife and it is interfering in your marriage, you should discuss the possibility of attending couples counseling together. It is possible to retain feelings for a prior spouse without affecting the current marriage, but you should see a counselor together to talk through these feelings.

Answer by  Anonymous

Do not end up like me 30 years later and still noticing how mine never criticizes his ex yet does me. He has said stuff; been caught flirting nonlinear; and researching her health woes while minimizing mine. If you think he loves her or is a psycho get out now.